A Trip Down Memory Lane. It’s Messy.

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My boys are fine for pictures of the early days of their adoption going online.  I don’t mind as they are completely unrecognisable now and they love to look through some of them.  I will always regret not having a decent camera when they were little and always being so busy that I rarely found [...]

Adoption Week Part 2 – A Sibling Thing

I saved one of the nicer parts of adoption to this week for a very special reason. The official adoption week focussed on the negatives but for our family we had a fabulous adoption week. I received a phone call last week from a woman who is the adoptive parent of one of my boys [...]

Adoption Week Part 1. Not the Step Forward I’d Imagined

It has been adoption week this week, and as someone with three adopted children, I thought I should add my tuppenyworth to the discussion and share some of my “ranty wisdom”.  I will also do a jollier post later this week about more of the positives. I felt like taking my remote control and throwing [...]

Guest Post – Adoption & Drug Users

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Firstly, thank you very much to Scottish Mum for letting me guest post on her blog. I wanted to write something relevant to her readers and I wasn’t sure which route to go down. However, I was listening to a debate on a radio show the other day about adoption and the lengthy process it [...]

Judgemental Parents – Lets Tone it DOWN a notch….

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Image: Naypong / FreeDigitalPhotos.net I am putting this post up as a result of something I saw on twitter yesterday. This IS my space, and I am not falling out with anyone because of it, but I’d like to set the record straight about some things and hopefully it gets taken in the right vein, [...]

Adoption at Heart – The Beginning Part 2

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Image: Kookkai_nak / FreeDigitalPhotos.net There we were, waiting to hear about some children that we were interested to hear about, when a phone call came for us to have the three little boys that social services wanted us to do them a favour for (the boys I talk about in Adoption at Heart, The Beginning). [...]

Adoption at Heart – The Beginning

Adoption Perfect Family

Saying goodbye to the fertility merry-go-round after three rounds of IVF and one donor cycle felt strangely liberating.   A long 12 months months later, we  climbed aboard the slow train to adoption. Approaching social services after my second round of fertility treatment proved fruitless.  They refused to allow us to embark until we were finished with fertility [...]

Bloggers Adoption Group on Brit Mums

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    Brit Mums have had a facelift.  Formerly known as British Mummy Bloggers, they have updated and extended the facilities they have on the get together site for those of us who live and breathe in the blogosphere. I have set up a new group on Brit Mums for bloggers who have an interest [...]

Children In My Heart (Adoption Poem)

Whisper through the air of time Closed eyes With a smile divine Imagine A life beside Your own Too much To cope With Whisper little children So many alone Closed eyes They wistfully Dream Imagine A life beside Their own They wait And hope For Whisper to ourselves We can Open eyes Brave heart Make a difference [...]