Baby food seems to be an emotive subject. I stated my opinion on it on twitter, and I was rapidly unfollowed by 4 mum bloggers. Who knew that baby food mums took it so seriously. Nobody said anything in defence of baby food which was surprising, but there were plenty of us who think that jars (and the ready-made tubs ) of baby food for older children are just not needed. I can see the snacks being useful, but the need for the meals confuse me.
My youngest came to me at 9 months old. I was told that he had been fed on cow’s milk, and he didn’t like pot noodles, so I decided to take it from there. I didn’t know any better, and with my mothers yada yada yada in my ear, I really never thought there was any other way of feeding a child, other than making something for them to eat. From day 1 in my home, he began eating the kiddie sized portion of what we grown ups and his older brothers had for meals.
Saying all that, before I get struck down with some bug from a curse from the mothers rights brigade, it is every mums’ choice of what to feed their child. The fact that their childrens’ taste buds might suffer eating bland gunk for so long in their lives is their choice.
What does annoy me is having to stand in a supermarket trailing my three hyperactive kids, who have little skills for waiting in line, to have to listen to a mummy righter blagging on about the baby food tub she had just bought in the shop – and wanted it heating up. On and on she went about how was she going to feed her baby now. The man behind the counter remained as calm as could be, although it was obvious he was dying to tell her exactly where to go.
She started off trying to persuade him to use the kitchens microwave to heat it up, but he explained that he couldn’t use industrial microwaves, then she tried to get him to let her go into the kitchen and heat it up herself. He explained that it was against company policy to allow that. I don’t know how often he said it, but eventually she paid for her food and walked away from the counter.
I had some sympathy for her, and stayed behind her in the queue without saying a word, as I could see that she was obviously getting stressed out about how to feed her baby. When she asked what she was going to do now to feed her baby, I almost felt like joining in and championing her cause.
When I had my childrens’ food paid for and got seated, I found myself facing straight towards where she sat with her friend and her “baby”. I felt a little jar of shock when I realised that this “baby” was well over a year old and possibly two or more. The kids menu had several choices of things that would have suited that child perfectly well. In the end, the mum mashed up some of her food, and spoon fed the little one.
My shock was at the fact that not only was she wanting baby food for such a big toddler, but that the toddler was getting it all mashed up, and not allowed to use a spoon or anything to eat it for herself. Far from being unable to feed herself through some disability or special need, I spied the “baby’s” dexterity with toys and the ability to be able to potentially eat for herself was evident.
It’s the mum that seems to want to keep her baby as a baby, and not let her grow up. Either that, or total laziness in feeding her child, so that the only thing she will eat is blah, blah, blah. I have tasted the jars and tubs of baby food, and they are completely disgusting. I suspect most children would turn away from them once they had “normal” not processed food to eat regularly.
I am not adverse to sticking on the odd packet of chicken nuggets, or pizza when I don’t have time to cook from scratch, but surely feeding toddlers that big on baby food is just silly.
If you want to unfollow me for that feel free, but I’d rather you debated the reasons for using it for older children with me.
I’d love to know the rationale and why baby food is so popular. Feel free to comment below.